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> "Sometimes magic is just someone spending more time on something than anyone else might reasonably expect." - Raymond Joseph Teller

[Defining Success](https://www.collaborativefund.com/blog/defining-success/)

> "Long lasting success that resulted from consistently showing up, adjusting to changing circumstances, and sustaining above average performance for long periods of time."

[No One Cares!](https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/11/how-stop-caring-what-other-people-think-you/620670/)

> "Studies show that we consistently overestimate how much people think about us and our failings, leading us to undue inhibition and worse quality of life."

> "Next time you feel self-conscious, notice that you are thinking about yourself. You can safely assume that everyone around you is doing more or less the same."